Just to highlight a point of why UIL schools often do not like to schedule Private Schools... listen to yourself and how you speak about bringing in athletic kids from public schools, IF you can convince them to come play for you. This goes directly against everything the UIL believes falls under fair athletic play. SChedules are most often laid out in the previous spring school session, and UIL schools have NO IDEA what team they will be facing year in and year out with private schools. This also goes along with the issue of the rankings. We usually have a pretty good idea in pre-season as to what starters are returning for UIL schools, and in some cases, who was inelligible the prior year because of having to wait a year after transferring. We can see the same kids play in PeeWee programs at the 3rd and 4th grade level playing against each other as seniors. Being able to recruit, or even give scholarships for athletes, along with the fact that standard grading systems and pass/fail ineligibility does not apply, will tend to run off many coaches from even considering playing a private school.
Just my take on it. but like I said, you pretty much pointed it out to begin with in your discussion of "how hard it is to get real athletes to come play for you"