Oldfolks, I am just reading a few posts on here, saw yours that didn’t make a lick of sense to me, but just wanted to ask you a simple question.
If your kid is leading the 100 meter dash do you tell him to slow down and only win by a little bit so as to not give them a complex from getting beat by a lot? Or tell him to turn around and run backwards for the last 20 meters?
If you think that you are helping the “also ran’s” by letting up on them, you are mistaken.
I want my kid to do his or her best every time and don’t let up.