We can agree to disagree but life's Divisions are self imposed ... you can exist on the playing field you wish to exist and are willing to try and achieve ... but Life's rules and opportunities are there for all of those who wish to persevere and make the effort ... that or you can wait around for someone to legislate your provided opportunity.
The stark reality is - not everyone is a winner - not in our society. It is based on achievers and those who do not. Yes circumstances do keep people from succeeding, but that is called life. There are places, winners and losers everywhere. Are you your own boss ?? Do you have the job or career you want and as successful as you want to be ?? Make all the money you want ?? Do other people have a better opportunity at success than you ?? If so do you think it right we make a segment of life where we make you a little world so you can be the cheese ??
Yes and my age has propelled me through experiences and a life that have brought me to that reality. We are being legislated and ruled into equality for all right now --- how's that going ??? Basically I would rather rely on myself for my successes and not have to rely on someone to provide or hand me at situation where I can succeed, but that is just me...
When I was in school, we were the little fish in the big pond. Only one team went to the playoffs. Guess what ??, the winner deserved to go. If it wasn't us there was always next year to try again, but sometimes it was us, even being the little fish in the big pond. I coached teams several seasons in this same situation and never considered it to be an alternative to be hacked off into a smaller world to compete. To me winning is it's own reward, if it has to be given to you it isn't worth much. If it is flawed logic that you have to make an effort to win and if you don't you keep trying then I will live with my flawed logic...
So if society wishes to create a false world for kids to grow up in .... plow ahead .... I just won't be on that tractor...
O.K. these deep philosophical differences hurt my brain ....