Six man dad-,you left a whole lot of stuff out of your first post, that you included in your second. So I just wondered why you left all that out. Also, I would certainly like to hear the other coach’s justification or reasons as to why they didn’t come back out. But certainly there was no good reason to be a bad sport unless he thought further contact might create a Sanderson—Marfa fracas. So until I hear something other than one side, I can’t judge one way or the other. It Certainly merits further discussion. Unfortunately there are those on this site, and every other site, who make their life’s decisions on emotion. How they FEEL, that way they don’t have to use their brains, common sense, critical thinking or anything else that is mentally challenging to an emotionally immature and intellectually challenged 3 year old. Those folks FEEL, they probably have never had a thought process that lasted more than 5 seconds before they start kicking, screaming, holding their breath and other hysterical behavior that always got momie and daddies attention. It’s easier than thinking and most folks just give to them. Watch TV and you’ll see millions of them.
In any event, I hope you can agree that kids who are under your care and control, kids you are RESPONSIBLE for, come first in any and all situations. So I won’t agree blindly with anyone, until I can hear both sides and get the facts.