I have most frequently heard:
1. "It's not real football", from people who have never even seen a game, much less played it, much less caught one over the middle against a 6 man safety, and think their ignorance is helping their kids.
2. "We're a basketball school", from people who are marginally successful at basketball and routinely lose basketball games to "football schools," and think their mediocrity is helping their kids.
3. "We can't afford to start a program", from people who don't want to try, are looking for an excuse not to exert any effort and think their apathy is helping their kids.
My reasons why a school should play six man:
1. It is so much fun for the kids. The example I always give is "Would you rather a child's football experience be playing right guard on a 7th grade 11 man team in a bunch of 8-6 or 13-0 games where he collides with one other player for 40 plays and then the game is over, or play both sides of the ball, touch the ball 5-10 times, score once or twice and in 8 minute quarters enjoy the thrill of a 38-35 or 54-47 game?" Seriously, which kid is more likely to continue playing into high school?
2. It is so much fun for the kids. My friends constantly chided me to transfer my son to public school "because he's a great player and he should play at a higher level, play 11 man, have a chance at a scholarship, etc." And I always said, "How is this going to be better for him? Here, he has a chance to play for a championship, he's 1st team all-state football, all-district basketball, state champion in track, athlete of the year, etc. So he goes to Navarro, and the team is 7-4 and he makes 2nd team all-district, gets 3rd at district in the long jump, and still doesn't get a scholarship. Which are the better experiences, the better memories, the better resume? He would be better off in the bigger school, how?
3. It is so much fun for the kids. ok, track is over about May 10th. Do you really think the best thing for our kids is to spend the next 6 months getting ready for basketball season? I mean, since we're a basketball school and all. I promise you one thing: six months of basketball practice is no fun, six months without a competitive game is no fun. And do not even mention club ball to me! If your parents will spend the money it takes to play club basketball, you can afford six man football!!
Club ball is not cheap!!
And don't get me started on the great American scam known as the oft-promised, rarely delivered college athletic scholarship for small school athletes.