I wasn't at the JH game last night, so I don't have an opinion on that. Just a comment...
I take pictures on the sidelines at the HS games. I have the gear for it, and it's fun. I'm glad to share the pics with the families of all the players. But one of the main reasons I do it is because it gets me out of the stands. When I'm on the sideline standing next to the refs, it keeps my mouth shut. If I were in the stands, it would be really, really hard to avoid opening my mouth too much. I'm competitive. That's great, but it can lead to problems sometimes. So I stand next to the ref and take pictures. I'm not always quiet even then, but I do a lot better than I'd probably do in the stands. LOL
Anyway, a couple things I've noticed from being on the sidelines taking pictures the last few years....
1. I hear a lot of cheering and encouragement for the players coming from both sides of the field in every game. That's very cool. The players and coaches and refs can hear that too.
2. I hear some mouthing and things that just make me cringe coming from both sides of the field in every game too. Some games it's worse than others, but it's there in every game on both sides. It's usually just a small number of fans, but it's always there somewhere. That's unfortunate. The players, coaches and refs can hear that too.
3. I hear what the players, coaches, and refs are saying on the field. Sometimes in the stands, when you don't hear everything, some plays/calls can appear to be terrible when in fact they were great calls when you have all the information. Sometimes there are just gonna be terrible calls too. That's just gonna happen. But sometimes you can get the wrong impression from the stands because you can't hear the explanations and everything.
Bad calls and a few mouthy fans are, unfortunately, unavoidable. And it often affects the game. It has an effect on the players and the refs more than anything, I'm convinced. When the players hear their parents and fans ripping the refs, the players start mouthing at the refs too. When the refs hear all of that, they often start looking for penalties to call on the mouthy team. When it comes from a school with Christian in the name, it usually only takes one or two loud comments to get on the officials' bad side. Whether it's fair or not, we're held to a higher standard. The same loud and rude comments from another school are usually tolerated by refs longer. I'm not whining about that. That's just the way it is. In fact, I think that we should be held to a higher standard, and we should hold ourselves to a higher standard if we're going to make "Christian" our middle name. Sure, most of the fans from all the other schools are Christians too, and they should hold themselves to that same high standard. But, like it or not, there is always gonna be a different standard applied to fans of a Christian school. It just comes with the territory.
It sure is hard sometimes though.