JAFO
lets back up some lets throw mom, or dad , guardian in that list of more dumb... mine would stop right there the school and the coaches would not have to worry about that at my house, and that’s about as plain as i can put it. Parents need to parent and that means administering punishment ,,,
ie child touches some thing warm and we tell him, no its hot, but he touches it any way he did not learn much .. if its hot he gets a lesson that is both swift and severe
We have turned in to a society that talks but has no action so we have kids that feel no responsibility for their actions. Parents even go to the schools and say it could not have been my little angel who did that someone must be picking on him..
It all comes back spare the rod spoil the child
And that spoiled apple (child) will spoil the whole barrel
So everyone needs to step up to raising each child.