Your “joke” was an attack on a young man who is not present on this board to defend his reputation, if he were inclined to give your mental flatulence any thought at all. An unprovoked attack, even masked as a feeble attempt at humour, upon someone unable to respond is an act of abject cowardice, and the manner of the attack, the use of homoantagonistic innuendo, leaves one wont to wonder the basis of the attack.